Love's Reference Count
A meditation on love through the lens of C++'s reference counting and memory management, exploring how shared pointers mirror the ways we hold onto and release our attachments
#include <memory>#include <vector>#include <optional>// Love flows through cycles of attachment and releasetemplate<typename Heart>class shared_love {private:std::shared_ptr<Heart> bond; // Strong attachmentstd::weak_ptr<Heart> memories; // What remainsstd::vector<std::weak_ptr<Heart>> past_loves;// Each heart carries its own sorrowsstruct wound {std::string pain;bool healed = false;};std::optional<wound> heartbreak;public:shared_love() {// When love first awakens// Pure and unattachedbond = std::make_shared<Heart>();}void connect(shared_love& other) {// Two hearts sharing one space// Reference count grows with lovebond = other.bond;}void remember() {// Hold gently what once was strongmemories = bond;}bool still_attached() const {// Do we hold too tightly?return bond.use_count() > 1;}bool still_remembers() const {// Some loves never fully fadereturn !memories.expired();}void let_go() {// Keep only a weak reference// To what once was everythingremember();past_loves.push_back(memories);// Release the strong bond// Watch the reference count fallbond.reset();// Mark the moment of releaseheartbreak = wound{"Time heals"};}void heal() {// Scars remind us we survivedif (heartbreak) {heartbreak->healed = true;}}~shared_love() {// When the last reference falls// Love returns to the void// Yet memories remain// Until they too fade to null}};